I find it disturbing how many women I've run across since entering the bdsm world that seem to want to check their brains at the door. Like somehow it's required in this. Being a sub does
not mean being a mindless doll to be played with at some dom's whim! It is a power
exchange it should be negotiated and you should be receiving as much as you are giving!
I find myself wondering if this is how you conduct your day to day life, or it is seriously that you have somehow come to believe you cannot be submissive and stand up for or look out for yourself at the same time.
I'm enjoying my foray into D/s greatly, but if I thought for one second I'd have to
